Over the next few weeks I’ll be giving you the heads up on some of the biggest online dating mistakes many people make so you can avoid falling into the same online dating potholes and make this way of finding a partner work for you!

In part two, I’m going to talk about the importance of dating online with the right mindset and how any negative beliefs you have about the opposite sex can ruin your chances when dating online.

So let me start by asking you:

-          Have you ever been on a first date which you thought went really well but then they didn’t call back?

-          Have you ever dated someone you thought loved you but then they didn’t want to commit?

-          Have you ever been cheated on by someone you trusted and you don’t know how to start over and trust a partner again?

If any of these are true for you, it just means you’re human!

One of the most important (and often overlooked) factors to successful online dating is to let go of any negative or limiting beliefs you have about yourself or the opposite sex and start with a fresh, positive mindset.

Start by learning to recognise how your past experiences are affecting your view of yourself, the opposite sex and dating. For example, if your partner cheated on you in a past relationship, you may be saying ‘men/women are such liars and cheats’ rather than ‘my boyfriend/girlfriend was a liar and a cheat.’

Don’t make false assumptions and tar everyone with the same brush – your negativity will show.

If you genuinely believe that dating is hard work or that women are liars or men just want casual sex, then all your new relationships will fail as you’ll be looking for evidence in everyone you meet. It will be leaking out from you, even if you’re completely unaware of it yourself.

Negativity in any form is unattractive, so take a look at what beliefs you hold and how they may be coming out in what you say and do when you’re dating online.

Thanks for tuning in to part 2, I hope you’ve found this online dating advice useful. If you’d like to work with me personally, click here for more info:

http://www.havefunfindingtheone.co.uk/lookingforlove.php

Have you been attracting and dating the wrong kind of men over and over again?

Maybe you’re fed up with dating men that cheat or men that are ‘just not ready for anything serious!’

If this is happening for you then it’s time to figure out what you may be doing to attract the wrong kind of men and… how to change so that you get the right man for you.

So let’s start by looking at what the “wrong type” can mean.

• He may already have a girlfriend or wife.
• He’s recently split up from a long term relationship.
• He’s cheated on partners in the past or has a bad dating history.
• He’s immature and unable to express his emotions and needs well.
• He’s unsure of what he wants out of life or a relationship.
• He’s unhappy with his life in general and doesn’t take responsibility for himself.

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Have you been single for a while?

Not looking forward to another Christmas on your own?

Well, you’re not alone and to help you find someone special this Christmas here are my 5 top tips to attract your ideal partner and fall in love for good!

Tip #1: Commit the time to find love

Most of us spend at least 35 hours a week working, a few hours watching television, going to the gym, reading or surfing the internet. But how much time do you actually spend on creating the right opportunities to find love?

If you’re like most people, it’s likely that it’s not very much.

Everything in life worth having requires an investment, and your love life is no different. It’s time to put aside the thoughts that love should ‘just happen’ and there’s never a better time to do that than December. Say ‘yes’ to all the party invitations that come your way because unless you’re out there meeting people then finding your ideal partner is just not going to happen and you’ll end up disheartened and feeling like it’s just all too much like hard work.

Sound familiar?

…. so go on, get out there and make it happen for you.

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With more than 1 in 5 of us being single in the UK and dating online it’s no wonder the online dating industry is growing rapidly.
But… even though there are more people than ever dating online, do you feel that finding real love has never been so hard?
Yes, there are an abundance of online dating websites popping up every other day for virtually every conceivable niche you can imagine but this can often just leave us confused and wondering which one we should spend our time and money with.

After all, you’re just looking for that ONE special guy, so where on earth do you start trying to find him?

And how can you avoid the wrong ones in the process?

Well, luckily it’s not as hard as you may think but you have to know what you’re doing with online dating. Just popping a quick profile up together with some old photo’s you’ve found from a few years ago is NOT going to work.
So if you want to get started straight away on learning the insider secrets to mastering online dating then go here now:

http://www.havefunfindingtheone.co.uk/salesHowtoHaveFun.php

OK, so before we dive in with the top 5 tips to being successful with online dating I want you to check with yourself if you’re ready to date again?

You see unless you’ve taken a closer look at the unfinished business in all of your relationships and the patterns that you’ve created with men, no amount of online dating is going to help. In fact, it may just make you more despondent and feeling like giving up altogether which is not what I want for you.

But… if you are ready then here are my top 5 tips for mastering online dating and finding the right man for you:

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Has this ever happened to you? Well maybe not quite as full on as this but we’ve all been there. It’s the first or second date and he’s come round, you’re on the sofa chatting and then kissing and naturally having a fumble. You start off by saying ’lets not go to far’  and then, hmmmm, one thing leads to another and …well you know what happens then!

Remember, dating is where all the fun is for a guy and it’s true, they love the chase BUT  not to be chased so why take that away from him and make it too easy?

After all, all good things are worth waiting for so play it cool and let him come to you. If he’s the right guy he’ll love you for making it a fun challenge and he’ll be more attracted to you I promise!