Declaring you want the perfect man right from the start in your profile!

Have you ever seen (or maybe even written) things like: ‘I’m looking for Mr Right, My Prince Charming or My Soul Mate’ in a profile? Make no mistake, these phrases are a huge turn off for a man because they set the bar so high and far into the future that he’s not ready to imagine himself there just yet.

It’s natural as women to want to know early on (if not straight away) that the guy you might meet is looking for a serious relationship and more than just something casual, but remember; men need to take their time to get to know you.

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Over the next few weeks I’ll be giving you the heads up on some of the biggest online dating mistakes many people make so you can avoid falling into the same online dating potholes and make this way of finding a partner work for you!

In part two, I’m going to talk about the importance of dating online with the right mindset and how any negative beliefs you have about the opposite sex can ruin your chances when dating online.

So let me start by asking you:

-          Have you ever been on a first date which you thought went really well but then they didn’t call back?

-          Have you ever dated someone you thought loved you but then they didn’t want to commit?

-          Have you ever been cheated on by someone you trusted and you don’t know how to start over and trust a partner again?

If any of these are true for you, it just means you’re human!

One of the most important (and often overlooked) factors to successful online dating is to let go of any negative or limiting beliefs you have about yourself or the opposite sex and start with a fresh, positive mindset.

Start by learning to recognise how your past experiences are affecting your view of yourself, the opposite sex and dating. For example, if your partner cheated on you in a past relationship, you may be saying ‘men/women are such liars and cheats’ rather than ‘my boyfriend/girlfriend was a liar and a cheat.’

Don’t make false assumptions and tar everyone with the same brush – your negativity will show.

If you genuinely believe that dating is hard work or that women are liars or men just want casual sex, then all your new relationships will fail as you’ll be looking for evidence in everyone you meet. It will be leaking out from you, even if you’re completely unaware of it yourself.

Negativity in any form is unattractive, so take a look at what beliefs you hold and how they may be coming out in what you say and do when you’re dating online.

Thanks for tuning in to part 2, I hope you’ve found this online dating advice useful. If you’d like to work with me personally, click here for more info:

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Struggling to meet the right partner for you?

Want to know where to find someone special to share your life with?

well you’re not alone, but if you’re not dating online you’re missing out on meeting other great, like minded singles looking for love just like you.

So, don’t waste another day  and have them pass you by. Online dating works for thousands of people every days, but it’s a skill. Work with me and I’ll show you  step by step, how to avoid the 7 biggest mistakes people make online so you can go from single to happily dating and sharing your life with someone special in no time at all

Get the insider tips and secrets you need in this 3 week program and discover how to…

• Create a profile that will get you noticed
• Know what qualities really are important in your ideal partner
• Save time and money by knowing which website(s) to choose
• Avoid the 7 biggest mistakes people make with online dating
• Spot your ideal partner in a sea of profiles
• Write emails that get a response
• Go from email to a first date  plus…

much, much, much more!

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Now that 2010 and the new decade has officially started, are you still committed to your New Year resolutions?

Well, if like many of us, you fall at the first hurdle with the usual “I want to…. drop a dress size, exercise more, eat healthily or find my ideal partner,” I want to encourage you to take a different look at this year’s resolutions. I want you to turn up the gas and make this the year you commit to loving yourself, just as you are.

Now, this may sound a little ‘tree hugging’ to some of you, but I truly believe that in order to find true love, you have to love yourself first. This is the critical step that so many of us miss out when looking for our soul mate. Somehow we feel that when we find this person, that everything in our lives will come good and they’ll love us exactly as we are…. And this can be true, but only when you truly love yourself exactly as you are first.

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