Tired Of Attracting The Wrong Men?
Have you been attracting and dating the wrong kind of men over and over again?
Maybe you’re fed up with dating men that cheat or men that are ‘just not ready for anything serious!’
If this is happening for you then it’s time to figure out what you may be doing to attract the wrong kind of men and… how to change so that you get the right man for you.
So let’s start by looking at what the “wrong type” can mean.
- He may already have a girlfriend or wife.
- He’s recently split up from a long term relationship.
- He’s cheated on partners in the past or has a bad dating history.
- He’s immature and unable to express his emotions and needs well.
- He’s unsure of what he wants out of life or a relationship.
- He’s unhappy with his life in general and doesn’t take responsibility for himself.
These are just a few of the ‘tell tale’ signs that a man is not ready for a relationship and will be the wrong match for you.
It may be that you’re attracting the wrong kind of man over and over again because you don’t know what to look for so you keep sticking with what you know and wind up repeating the same patterns of dating over and over again.
Unfortunately there are no classes in school that teach us what to look for in a relationship so all we have to draw on our experiences from our parents, siblings and past boyfriends and herein may be where a big part of the problem lies.
So the first thing you need to do to stop attracting the wrong kind of men is to know exactly what kind of man you really are looking for.
Imagine you’re with your ideal man. Close your eyes and think of all the things he’s doing that make you feel special.
Make a list of all the qualities you love about this guy. What are the qualities you need to be at your best? What qualities are non-negotiable for you?
Come up with 5 clear qualities that the next man you date must have. By this I don’t mean he must be 6ft tall, have dark hair and earn over £50K. The qualities you want to get clear on are the ones that bring out the best in you, the ones that make you shine and show you he’s a great match.
It’s vital that you attract a partner that equally matches you, someone that you’re proud to be with and have mutual respect for as these form the foundations of a healthy long term relationship.
Once you have your values and standards clear in your head you’ll be less likely to experience another failed relationship and the heartache that goes with it.
Bonus tip: Use these qualities in your online profile to describe the man you’re looking for in a way that will inspire him. For me info on how to write a great profile click here:
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