Have you thought ‘I know I’m doing something wrong but I’m just not sure what it is?’

Now many of us seem to have this uncanny knack of sabotaging our relationships before they begin. We can have an old habit or way of being that stops us finding or keeping the right person and it can often undermine our self-esteem, self-confidence and keep us from meeting or keeping the right man in our lives.

So….

I’m going to challenge you here to start to take a look at those ways of behaving that seem to be causing the same results and pain for you in your relationships  because once you can recognise them they key is to learn how you can do things differently.

One of the most common fears that causes so manyof us to keep sabotaging our relationships is REJECTION.  I am convinced this is the number one fear that we hold because of our hurt from previous relationships and not wanting to be burnt again.

Let’s suppose you are just starting a new relationship and you’re worrying about what he or she thinks of you? Are they calling or texting you enough? Are you reading between every single line they send and then going back and reading your texts to them and wondering how it might have come across to them?  The trick in any situation is to start to become aware of what’s going on inside of you and then to notice what it is doing to you, what feelings and emotions are coming up? What actions are following on from those emotions? If you can just STOP and take a good look at your own fears before you write that text, pick up the phone or hit the send email button, you’ll immediately see a change in your dating life.

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