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Do you find it hard to know what to write in that first email to someone you like the look of?

Are you wondering if you should wink, add him to your ‘favourites’ or whether to send him an email?

Well, here are a few of my top tips on how to make online dating work for you:

1. The first and most important rule to emailing online is to be proactive. Once you’ve written a great profile (I can help with that by the way) and uploaded a selection of your best photos, are you then going to sit back and wait for the men to contact you? No, absolutely not. This will only leave you feeling frustrated and disappointed and your love life is too important to leave to chance. There’s no rule that says the man should be the one to contact you first, so go ahead and actively search out the men you like the look of and send them an email… after all what have you got to lose?
2. Use your subscription like a gym membership – If you want to lose weight or tone up, you know you need to go to the gym regularly and workout for 3 days a week for at least 3 – 6 months. The same is true with online dating. You’re going to need to log in at least 4 times a week and search and email members for at least an hour every time. Don’t fall into the trap of paying your subscription and then not using it and expecting things to change. Aim to send a personal email (not a wink or anything that’s cut and pasted) to around 5 people each week and meet at least 1 person every week until you find someone you’d like to date… and who’d like to date you.
3. Find something that’s unique to him in his profile and write to him about it, always adding a question at the end. This will let him know you’ve read his profile and by asking a question at the end you make it easy for him to respond to you. Something simple like this is fine:

‘Wow, I see you’ve spent 5 years in Italy… it’s such a beautiful country and I’ve had some great holidays there.

If you could choose the one thing you          love most about it, what would it be?

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Yes, another February 14^th is fast approaching, and if you’re single you may be starting to look at the dinner for two posters in every restaurant you pass, wondering if you’ll be alone for another year. It can be a depressing time… especially as it’s on a Sunday!

But, don’t worry…

You can make a change and find love, far sooner than you think and I’m here to show you how, so stick with me and read on:

No. 1    Start dating online

I’m going to cut straight to the chase here, if you’re not doing what the other 5+ Million people in the UK are doing every month (dating online), then the chances of you finding your ideal partner is pretty slim.

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So, how available should you be when he calls?

Well, I’d never advocate being dishonest in any situation as you’ll usually only get found out and it can be hard work keeping up any kind of pretence for long! So, if he calls and you’re free then make a date and if you’re not, suggest an evening you are to make it a little easier for him.

Men often fill their time with more hobbies than women and one of their greatest fears is that by dating you he’ll lose his freedom so a guy is often looking for a woman  that’s got a busy life so she won’t be dependent on him to make her happy but also a woman that is able to make him a priority. 

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Take care for now!

Has this ever happened to you? Well maybe not quite as full on as this but we’ve all been there. It’s the first or second date and he’s come round, you’re on the sofa chatting and then kissing and naturally having a fumble. You start off by saying ’lets not go to far’  and then, hmmmm, one thing leads to another and …well you know what happens then!

Remember, dating is where all the fun is for a guy and it’s true, they love the chase BUT  not to be chased so why take that away from him and make it too easy?

After all, all good things are worth waiting for so play it cool and let him come to you. If he’s the right guy he’ll love you for making it a fun challenge and he’ll be more attracted to you I promise!